This may sound mean, but Pam’s look at the ball when the engagement is announced is unintentionally one of the more satisfying moments of the series. This is the woman who was having an emotional affair with Mark prior to her officially leaving Bobby; the woman who left Bobby multiple times; the woman who packed up their son and left Southfork without really discussing it with her husband. I’m a Pam fan, but she did not treat Bobby all that well. She was always in control of that relationship and was the one who decided when they’d be together and when they wouldn’t. The relationship was always about Bobby chasing after her. She deserved that little public humiliation.