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Are you currently in love?

Discussion in 'The Lockdown Lounge' started by Edie70, Apr 4, 2018.

  1. Edie70

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    Sooo ... are you? If so, tell me more, tell me more!!

    Okay, fine. I'll start ... I am in love. Have been for the past 15 months. He doesn't know yet. We work together regularly (although with multiple breaks). I don't think he likes me very much but it's always so hard to tell with people like him - total introvert who has no idea how to talk to people, how to build new relationships and how to form a bond or trust to a new person. I'm such an opposite of that. Loud person who speaks before he thinks, I talk too much, make friends quite easily. But he is driving me nuts with his coldness.
     
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  2. Snarky's Ghost

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    How do you know all this about him?
     
  3. Willie Oleson

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    Is this some kind of "Dear Mona" thread? Just want to be sure...
     
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  4. Alexis

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    Um... I don't mean to sound rude but this sounds to me like this guy actually has no idea how you feel about him. Like you are someone he goes on break with? What you are seeing as him being cold, sounds just like someone who is oblivious to your thoughts and feelings about him. It also sounds like he's straight and therefor wouldn't even entertain the idea.
    Again I'm not being rude or bitchy here. I think most of us have had crushes on someone in that way and eventually realised it is a one sided thing. Also my work crush left unceremoniously last week. So, no I'm not in love.
     
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  5. Alexis

    Alexis Soap Chat Hero EXP: 13 Years

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    I'll leave this here...
     
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    Yes, I get that you can love unilaterally, but can you be in love without it being reciprocal? I mean, like, for realsies....

    I don't know the answer, by the way.
     
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  7. Edie70

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    No, @Alexis , he's in a relationship with a guy. Now that came back to my first post and read out loud I realize how demented it sounded. Hmmm ... I'll write you a personal message.
     
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    Nope, not in love. Single. But I have a habit of "falling in love" (crushes) a whole lot. Like a silly little teenage girl.
     
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    Sar and I have been head over heels for quite a while.
     
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    If he's currently in a relationship and happily in love with his partner, what you're perceiving as "coldness" is actually blissful unavailability. Sorry, I know from personal experience how hard it is when someone that you're romantically interested in doesn't feel the same way about you.
     
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    I dunno. I’m strongly introverted and depending on who I’m with, I can seem terse, abrupt, taciturn, aloof, avoidant, mysterious, difficult to get to know. But to my chums, children, cousins, people who say hello and smile, fellow walkers and Jack Russells, I’m playful, goofy, gooey, bubbly and exceptionally easy to get along with. An introvert’s inner world may remain hidden from you, unless you are part of it.
     
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    So ... I went to see his new play on Saturday. And I had no idea he would be totally naked on stage during the last act. What a happy coincidence.
     
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