breakup

[The Lovely Sue Ellen]

Hey everyone.
Please keep my sister in your thoughts and hope that she will be ok.

Derick just broke up with Sammi
I called in to work cause she is crying so hard and shaking. I worry about her so much
She has been with him for 5 years, she was just with him for 2 months in cali as alot of you know and things seemed fine. he even gave her a promise ring!
Now he "claims"it was just a promise to be honest with her
he is a total

So please just keep her in your thoughts and prayers

[bacteriophage]

I'm really sorry to hear that Give Sammi a hug from me and tell her that she deserves better anyway because he sounds like a jerk.

[The Lovely Sue Ellen]

She is still crying

[minx]

he even gave her a promise ring!
Now he "claims"it was just a promise to be honest with her

I've never heard that one before. Seeing that honesty is high on the list of most women's expectations in a relationship, dating is going to be awfully expensive for this guy. Better for your sister to find out what jewellry really means to him before he gives her a wedding ring.

[Luke]

Good that you are there for her!
5 years is a long time, there will many days of tears. Be ready to be supportive yet not really be able to help.

[Sarah]

She WILL get over it. It's happened to me many times, it happens to most of us. She WILL be ok in time. Promise.

[The Lovely Sue Ellen]

She WILL get over it. It's happened to me many times, it happens to most of us. She WILL be ok in time. Promise.

I hope so.
Its all new to me i have never been in love...well not real love like this.

[Dallasdaze]

Sorry about your situtation as well as your sisters. There are three things definate in every relationship. It either ends in a breakup,divorce or death.
Depending on how long together or how attached can affect the person.
Grief is very normal and is a gradual process.
I'm glad you are around for your sister.

[The Lovely Sue Ellen]

Everyone keep us in your thoughts. Things just got a whole lot worse.
Sammi hacked Dericks Email and found out her has a new girlfriend
He broke up with her on the 8th and was telling this girl he loved her with all his heart and soul on the 9th!!!!!
She is screaming and shaking and says this is worse than when he broke up with her.

here she is

How could he leave Sammi after 5 years for her?!?

[McGarrett .]

I am experienced in two long term relationships that ended over my stubbornness to take the next step..

It hurts real bad..

Yes you feel sick, and horrible, and wish the world would go away!!

But over time as with everything it gets better..

Now I look back on them and wonder why I was so in love...I mean I still think of them but there is no hurt anymore..

Pamela you reading this?? remember "Hamna"?? she did a number on me!!

[Sarah]

Everyone keep us in your thoughts. Things just got a whole lot worse.
Sammi hacked Dericks Email and found out her has a new girlfriend
He broke up with her on the 8th and was telling this girl he loved her with all his heart and soul on the 9th!!!!!
She is screaming and shaking and says this is worse than when he broke up with her.

here she is

How could he leave Sammi after 5 years for her?!?

It sounds to me like the guy is really immature and she's better off without him.

[The Lovely Sue Ellen]

I agree
She is still all mopey though!
i dont know what to do to make her see her life is going to be better.

[emmalovesdallas]

Aww. Its sounds like its a good thing she's not with him - he seems like a bit of an ass (not to be crude or anything!!). I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers. xxxxxx