Well this is in general and not an attack to other forum members anyway...
And how can you say the comments are unhelpful?
I judge obese people when I see them either being slobby in public and not seeming to care about it, or when some obese people I know blame everything else but themselves and won't help themselves get healthier, or when I see obese people judging THIN people (out of jealousy I mean.)
I also judge people if they are overweight and just keep eating junk food for every meal and complain all day long about how fat and gross they feel and whine like it's someone else's fault.
I see that a lot. I take it almost like a personal offense.
To be honest when I see an obese person walking, or at the gym, or making an effort, ordering healthy food etc, I silently applaud them.
I guess the feeling is how can somebody not care about themselves so much? and regardless of how the fat person might feel it does effect the people around you...
Ever see a fat couple with a fat kid? I literally want to cry when I see that...Too me it is almost criminal...I am sorry....that is just the way I feel.