Benny JR
11-21-2008, 11:18 PM
Okay, something terrible happened tonight in work. See, two of my friends aren't speaking to each other, they detest each other, they don't speak to each other, nothing! But I'm really good friends with each of them and I really love them alot, they're like a Brother and Sister who I've never had and I think the world of them both, they're better when they're not together.
Now my friend who I was on box with tonight, let's call him A., he has a crush on one of the girl's friends who started work with us, so I introduced them tonight, to sorta break the ice between them. But, the girl, who I'm gonna call B. made a joke and said to her friend that after when she shakes his hand to ''wash her's'', it was purely a joke and I don't think she meant anything of it.
After that, when the new girl met A., I told him that B. said that ''her firend should wash her hand after shaking his'', I truly and honestly thought he would have taken it as a joke. Then, A. gets up, leaves me all alone on box office, goes over to the concessions stand and start's shouting at B.!!!!
The manager spoke to us after that and I feel so guilty and horrible about it. I explained what happened to my manager and he was very understanding about it all and didn't say anything about it to us for the rest of the night. I was extremely nervous all night and was shaking and just so unfocused all night, I messed up so many ticket sales and felt so embarrased and those wise-ass customers just pissed me off even more.
So then, my friend A. said to me purely out of the blue that ''he doesn't care if he gets fired and doesn't care about anyone else''. I've lost alot of respect for him now seeing how much of a dick he really is and that he doesn't care about me, or B. or any of us who he called 'friends'.
I saw one of my friends after the incident and he asked ''why did I do it?'' I was shocked and couldn't believe he asked me that, but then I told him what happened and I don't think he's angry at me anymore, he was even talking to me later that night, and so were many others who I thought would hate me, but I think, and hopefully they realise, that it was a simple, stupid mistake, that simply got out of hand. I did not intend for any of this to happen and didn't see it going this far.
I hope my colleagues and friends don't hate me. I think I got caught in the middle of this terrible feud and I hope no one ahtes me. I really wan to apologise to B. if I've caused her any upset and I asked her before I went home if she was okay and she said she was fine, so hopefully she doesn't hate me. Maybe I should just lay low for a while and then gradually start talking to her again. As for A. I really don't care if I ever speak to him again, seeing how shallow and immature he really is.
Anyone any suggestions on how to fix this? I'm desperate, I really love these people who I work with and would hate myself if I lost them over this.
Now my friend who I was on box with tonight, let's call him A., he has a crush on one of the girl's friends who started work with us, so I introduced them tonight, to sorta break the ice between them. But, the girl, who I'm gonna call B. made a joke and said to her friend that after when she shakes his hand to ''wash her's'', it was purely a joke and I don't think she meant anything of it.
After that, when the new girl met A., I told him that B. said that ''her firend should wash her hand after shaking his'', I truly and honestly thought he would have taken it as a joke. Then, A. gets up, leaves me all alone on box office, goes over to the concessions stand and start's shouting at B.!!!!
The manager spoke to us after that and I feel so guilty and horrible about it. I explained what happened to my manager and he was very understanding about it all and didn't say anything about it to us for the rest of the night. I was extremely nervous all night and was shaking and just so unfocused all night, I messed up so many ticket sales and felt so embarrased and those wise-ass customers just pissed me off even more.
So then, my friend A. said to me purely out of the blue that ''he doesn't care if he gets fired and doesn't care about anyone else''. I've lost alot of respect for him now seeing how much of a dick he really is and that he doesn't care about me, or B. or any of us who he called 'friends'.
I saw one of my friends after the incident and he asked ''why did I do it?'' I was shocked and couldn't believe he asked me that, but then I told him what happened and I don't think he's angry at me anymore, he was even talking to me later that night, and so were many others who I thought would hate me, but I think, and hopefully they realise, that it was a simple, stupid mistake, that simply got out of hand. I did not intend for any of this to happen and didn't see it going this far.
I hope my colleagues and friends don't hate me. I think I got caught in the middle of this terrible feud and I hope no one ahtes me. I really wan to apologise to B. if I've caused her any upset and I asked her before I went home if she was okay and she said she was fine, so hopefully she doesn't hate me. Maybe I should just lay low for a while and then gradually start talking to her again. As for A. I really don't care if I ever speak to him again, seeing how shallow and immature he really is.
Anyone any suggestions on how to fix this? I'm desperate, I really love these people who I work with and would hate myself if I lost them over this.